I remember going downstairs about halfway into the cocktail hour and finding Hallie and Andrew just hanging out away from the crowd. Usually, couples want to mingle and enjoy the food. In fact, in recent years, I’ve grown so accustomed to seeing couples at the cocktail hour right after the ceremony, I was a little surprised. And then I thought about it. How nice it was, that they were just enjoying one another’s company. About how nice it was that they were living this moment together – a time they’ll have once in their lives, just being present, un-rushed and unhurried. And I smiled. It was a good day.